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Woman Abuse

 
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panthersow  

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     I have experienced fear of separation of my son and myself since 2001. I understand Immigration is an issue that is a touchy subject to many. However you may have never heard a story like this. I am reaching out, documenting this unusual story; writing a book of my seaking of justice. It adresses an unheard issue of woman abuse (or man abuse) through the selfishness of greedy people who take their spouses rights on purpose. Unable to reach out for help, the victims are experiencing a cruel blockage laid in their path. It adresses woman abuse, allowed within the very borders of the United States. I cannot adress all I have experienced in this report, but my book will, where I hope it will help make a change for all woman that are literally ripped from their own children. I cannot tell you how many tears I have shed. Because I may be barred from the United States never able to return, I may never see my only son again...

   This involves my first abusive husband who denied my existance as his wife, after being legal in America for 12 years. The time of hiding illegally, fearing every knock on the door may be to take me away, was a mere horror, ...watching my son when he slept while I wept on his side. A second marriage to a con artist, who marries woman each with a different S.S.nr.(5), who committed bigamy, identity theft, title fraud, embezzlement, forgery, ...etc...., lengthend my hardship, ending up with me in incarceration, dependent on representation which ended up to be misrepresentation! My husband emptied my pocket of $17,000+, hoping with my deportation it would never surface. I was charged with marriage-fraud, considered a non-aggrevated felon, despite my husbands criminal actions, he was given immunity. This man walks a free man.

Researching who my husband may be, I found more to the truth than he wanted. Nevertheless, his lying to Immigration and purjury before court, stating he: 'married me for money, never lived with us, only had one wife before me, etc.', all a lie which I can prove, caused me to spend about a year in jail. My lawyer avoided 29 witnesses, and evidence proving my innocence. He is currently under investigation by the American Bar Association; ..also a Immigration officer who knew I was filing a woman-spouse-abuse petition against my husband, yet he avoided interviewing me and delivered me to jail. I was taken my driverslicense, my work-visa which was valid, and my S.S.nr. and now have been released on bond with no means to support myself.

     The truth is as it stands before God. I have experienced what it means to be without rights, seeing the Native Americans, slaves, etc. in a new light. I know what it means to look at my dreams and realize I may never again be honored to see my son through college, building a museum, stage and restaurant which I was enthusiastic to build, to continue writing for the Snipettes Magazine, contiuing the Christmas party I founded in 2005 supporting 80 children in this 85% wel-fare area, running my store, and publishing my books are on unstable ground. Nobody understands what is going on and they have never heard anything like it. Even the Federal investigator stated to witnesses he interviewed, he did not understand why I was the one imprisoned,and not my husband? My son is now placed in the hands of his father tempted with an alcohol addiction. I am not someone likely to give up, and am honored to write a book adressing the problem which is no longer just mine, but will include the stories of various people imprisoned and deported away from their families because of selfish spouses.

     In 2002 I asked you for help. I was very scared dealing with the circumstances of being made illegal. I received a reply; ..an advise to contact a recommended lawyer, who had a fee I was unable to pay; ..understanding I left my first husband with the animals he kicked in the face, my son, and with $50.- in my hand. I never even dreamed that day would come. Now I have witnessed not only my own ongoing hardships, but those of others, facing deportation away from their children, like the woman without her newborn +2 more children (Senegal, Africa), toddler (Ivory Coast Africa), 5 children (Mexico, arrived here with 2 years of age, lived here 30 years),..... I myself have lived here 19+ years, more than in any country. I have a dream, and if the truth will reveal, I will fulfill it if God's Will. I ask God bless you, and that you may hear the cries of all woman who are left with no rights to defend themselves. I can only reach in desperation, intwined in a mess I myself did not cause. For in God the truth always surfaces, sooner or later, for righteousness for those injustice fell upon. For atleast so I believe...

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Debbie3  

PLEASE HELP ME GET OUT OF ABUSIVE

Dear reader

PLEASE ANYONE READING THIS! I need a lot of prayer and money to get out of my abusive marriage. I am a hardworking mother of two, aged 3 & 18 months. I am a Child of God.  I try to bring up my kids with good morals & values.  I do not smoke or use any substances at all.  We don’t have a lot of resources in our country for welfare.  The waiting lists are so long and I can’t put my husband’s rage on a waiting list! I need to start a new life for me and the sweetest two angels given to me by God!
The abuse is getting more and more violent and he has threatened several times to kill me already! I can’t get a restraining order before I move, because the house is on his name, and the law in our country does not allow for him to be put our of his own house, even if the abuse is bad.  He has even put a gun to my head before! 
PLEASE HELP ME GET OUT OF THIS NIGHTMARE!!!

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